Thursday, November 8, 2012

November 8 - NO H8

Bullying is not funny. It is not cool. It is not right. And more importantly, it is not okay.

Most of us are, thankfully, residents of countries that support tolerance and many of our families have settled in these places simply for that reason. Generations later, it is our responsibility to perpetuate that message of tolerance across our new social platforms, including the internet.

As members of the nail polish blogging community, we all share a love of beauty, color, and lacquer. Other than that, we are remarkably different: from our race to our religion to our hair color...even to our polish application techniques. To marginalize anyone because of those differences is completely unacceptable and today I take a stand against that. I refuse to allow other people's view of "normal" dictate how I behave, believe, and blog.

In solidarity with a multitude of bloggers linked below, my purple manicure represents my proud commitment to the No H8 movement. Today, November 8, I dedicate my post to ending bullying of any kind and to encouraging diversity and imperfection among our colorful community.



I'd like to begin my post with a necessary quote from Mean Girls.


The amount of bullying and hatred that goes on within the nail polish community is actually unbelievable. I decided to participate in today's No H8 Mani Challenge because I believe everyone needs to quit the drama, and get along!

Of course, the message we are spreading today goes well beyond the nail polish community.
I don't wanna get all preachy cause that ain't how I do it here but the bottom line is, we've all been bullied and we have all been bullies ourselves. And it's not cool. So let's band together and pledge to stop being mean girls.

I went way back into my photo archive to find a manicure-from-the-past to put in today's post to stand up against people who critisize others based on their nails or their skills or their photos or whatnot.
And boy I found a good one, from about two and a half years ago.


We have all been there, people. Don't be a bully if someone isn't perfect. None of us are perfect.

I'm wearing purple today, too, of course...


I chose Deborah Lippmann - Let's Go Crazy for my purple mani, one of my favorite polishes.


Bloggers Against Hate and Bullying!

1. Amandalandish  84. Ambibugs nails  167. Gelic' nail art  
2. DeltaCephei.nl  85. The Beauty Delicacy  168. Nail Polish Goddess  
3. Cakepie  86. Taneja's Bride  169. Nails for the Sake of Sanity  
4. I Relish Nail Polish  87. Lozlosa (Lisa Chakan)  170. JenerallySpeaking  
5. Southern Sass and Sparkle  88. The Ides of Polish  171. Thoughts of Beauty  
6. Epitome of Feminine Allure  89. Older Ladies Like Color Too  172. Mimi Manicures  
7. Harajuku Girl FL Beauty  90. My Beauty Dish  173. iHeartPrettyPolish  
8. Claudia @ Nailingthis.com  91. Crystaliciousss  174. gl0ssy  
9. Beauty Info Zone  92. esstur  175. Nailed  
10. Peace Love and Glitter  93. Dema Pixie  176. Esmaltoterapia  
11. Leona Carolina  94. Paperbacks and Polish  177. Mimi's Mani's  
12. Cosmetics Aficionado  95. LinvanT  178. College Polished  
13. Pinked Polish  96. PishPosh and Polish  179. 9ml Universe  
14. Fox Claws  97. VWolfe  180. osiris and loki paint their nails  
15. Nory from Fierce Makeup and Nails  98. Packer Lacquer  181. Nailspt  
16. Ishah x Beauty  99. Supermaxxx  182. Polished Peripherals  
17. Captivating Claws  100. Sonya Parks  183. Pink & Polished Nails  
18. Polish Ninja  101. Imperfectly Painted  184. Grape Fizz Nails  
19. ChiChi  102. polish insomniac  185. fashionpolish  
20. MakeUpMom123  103. Karine's Vernis Club  186. Yasmin  
21. Nailing it by mystie  104. PrettyKittyClaws  187. Kara (Never Gonna Give You Up)  
22. Meredith Anne  105. embellished nails  188. Lissa's Polish Addiction  
23. shortwidenails  106. Its' All About the Polish  189. polish cart  
24. Posh Nail Art  107. Jen's Wonderland  190. Elfleidy's Stuff  
25. Nailant  108. Every Sensory  191. Elena AiokaIemanja  
26. Lacquer Buzz  109. Nothing But Nail Polish  192. Partly Cloudy With a Chance of Lacquer  
27. llarowe.com  110. StyleInspire.nl  193. Mandy @ Chameleon Stampede  
28. Nails by Carol  111. Hand-y Feats and Other Treats  194. The Polished Bookworm  
29. Never Mind Suzi  112. Go Polish Yourself  195. Lit From Within (Nidia)  
30. Gatita's nail art  113. Lydia's Nails  196. Nailified  
31. Angel  114. Menina  197. Swatched Nails  
32. Kimpelling Beauty  115. Pamela H  198. dania  
33. Belessa  116. Omg! Polish 'Em!  199. Kimberly Williams  
34. Natasje.nl  117. The Crumpet  200. Life In Color!  
35. Marlevi  118. Oooh, Shinies!  201. Crystal's Crazy Combos  
36. Inky Whiskers  119. The Sweet Escape  202. Follow the Yellow Polish Road  
37. Nails by Ms. Lizard  120. Lisa Nail Polish Creations  203. 3 Girls, 3 Mines and 3 Shades of Despair  
38. TheFabZilla  121. The Lacquerologist  204. Cuticle Pusher  
39. Lacquer Or Leave Her!  122. Polished Grad  205. Gorgeois  
40. Polarbelle  123. Polish Etc.  206. Patricia Knetzer  
41. nailsandstuff-shannara  124. Abominable Attempts At Pretty Nails  207. Chickettes  
42. Melanie's Fancies  125. Polly Polish  208. Janet Planet Nails  
43. Beauty by Miss L  126. Lifes Little Blessings  209. Sarah's Minnie Studio  
44. Neverland Nail Blog  127. â™¥ KT world Music ~ Life ~ Beauty  210. Patty Greenberg  
45. Lacky Corner  128. NAIL ME  211. MandysSecrets Part 2.. NO H8 FOTD  
46. Jen of Sweet Tips Nails  129. Horcrux Nails  212. Nailed It  
47. JennaFroggy  130. Bunny Nails  213. Men and Nail Polish  
48. GoingtotheShowing  131. MandysSecrets  214. Fab.Lush.Luxe  
49. Nailart-Addictions  132. Lucy's Stash  215. Tara's Nail Art & Polish  
50. Art Evolve  133. ManicuredSlayer  216. play polish :)  
51. Confessions of a Sarcastic Mom  134. The Blahg  217. Donner's Nails  
52. Moxie Reviews  135. Polish Insomnia  218. Nail FREAK  
53. Lacquered Lover  136. The Daily Lacquerista  219. Pamper with Polish  
54. The MakeUp Diary  137. Sirantha's Nails  220. Hooked On Polish  
55. Superficially Colorful  138. a teachers secret nailblog  221. Glamfiend  
56. A Ginger's Nail...  139. Polish Pauper  222. Lauryn Lofgren  
57. Beyond Beauty Lounge  140. JanMLoves  223. datyorkLOVES  
58. Beauty by Arielle  141. Jennie  224. Shenailigans!  
59. Lacquer Dreams  142. Nailphotos by Lani  225. MsPrickle  
60. MixedMama  143. Nails done by a blimbo  226. Didoline's Nails  
61. Nails Adored  144. The Nail Adventure  227. Kas at Varnished Valkyrie  
62. Red polish or bad polish  145. NailsLikeLace  228. femketje  
63. Sonya Parks  146. Once Bitten Nails  229. +10 Kapow  
64. SoFlaJo  147. Just for fun  230. Addicted To The Allure Of Beauty  
65. Andra Williams  148. Nail Polish Wars  231. baroqe fool  
66. Amber Did It!  149. Jazz at Glitter Infatuation  232. shine eye  
67. Kristina Masten  150. The Colours in my World  233. Mie Louise Joergensen  
68. Rebecca Likes Nails  151. Nails N Stuff  234. George from Varnished Valkyrie  
69. ...And Then There Was Polish  152. Ooooo Shiny!  235. pippi 101 dingen in 1001 dagen  
70. EntirelyNails  153. Nail Loopy  236. Seriously Swatched  
71. Rin's Nail Files  154. Sonoma Nail Art  237. Lisanne blogt  
72. Spellbinding Nails  155. nail crazy  238. netballnails  
73. Sincerely Stephanie  156. Danielle at Totally Nailed  239. Lacquer Lockdown  
74. lovenailpolish for NO H8  157. Annie  240. http://www.zitzjvnoqg.com/  
75. Très Beau Glamour  158. Natalia  241. http://www.qqowaenybp.com/  
76. Beauty and Fashion Tech  159. Oh! Look at my Nails  242. http://www.zpjugpcunp.com/  
77. Myfashionality  160. Cel  243. http://www.gasuhrxrmw.com/  
78. MommyLovesNailPolish  161. Saving the World One Nail at a Time  244. http://www.udcfqjjgia.com/  
79. Painted Pixies  162. Enigmatic Rambles  245. http://www.megjussfcy.com/  
80. Erica's Nails and More  163. ChrissyAi  246. http://www.nmncfttgfw.com/  
81. NailpolishHeaven  164. Glitter Me This  247. http://www.drrrafcifs.com/  
82. Nail Craze with Dayze  165. See Jodi Polish  
83. Makeup Chic, Literary Geek  166. pretty tough nails  

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That's all for today, folks. I love you all!

18 comments:

  1. I'm loving how lots of you are posting old mani's. I think it really helps out and gives all of us inspiration!

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  2. One of my favorite things to do is to look at old photos from my favorite bloggers. It helps when I'm feeling down or not happy with my own photos or design to remind me that we all start somewhere and none of us are perfect. It encourages me to know that if I keep doing what I love and working at it I can get better at it just like they did. I'm still struggling with taking good photos since I can't afford a real camera right now (I use my iPhone for all of my pics). But I just keep plugging along because I don't want the the joy nail polish and blogging brings me to hinge of what I use to take my pics with. Thanks for such a great post!

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  3. Beautiful! Both your manis are perfect to me :) Wishing I didn't miss out on this no H8 movement lol! but I agree with it 100% :)

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  4. Lovely polish and mani, thxxx for the support!

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  5. Great cause and great polish Rebecca! Its nice to see you post your old mani too, really good way to get the message across and spread the love.

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  6. beautiful nails! i really love this cause :) one time this girl made fun of my dry cuticles :( i know its such a dumb thing, but it actually hurt my feelings

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    1. i am sorry someone hurt your feelings. this is why we need to band together against nail-bullying! hehe. i am sure your cuticles are lovely <3

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  7. I'm loving every second of this. I'm sporting purple today, too!

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  8. Ahhh, didn't see all this until almost too late to change my polish! Getting my Purple on soon.... Love this and thanks Rebecca!

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  9. Thanks for sharing your older mani. It gives us all hope knowing we can and will get better if we try!

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  10. Thank you, this is a great message right now for everyone. Is it a weekly thinng? No H8 day? Purple !

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